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Infidelity, Addiction, and the Internet

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Forward, Susan. When Your Lover is a Liar. New York: HarperCollins, 1999.

Lusterman, Don-David. Infidelity: A Survival Guide. Oakland, CA.: New Harbinger Publications,1998.

Maheu, Marlene M. & Subotnik, Rona B. Infidelity on the Internet: Virtual Relationships and Real Betrayal. Naperville, IL.: Sourcebooks, Inc., 2001.

Pittman, Frank. Private Lies: Infidelity and Betrayal of Intimacy. New York: W.W. Norton & Company, 1989.

Schneider, Jennifer P. Back from betrayal: A ground-breaking guide to recovery for women involved with sex-addicted men. New York: Ballantine Books, 1988.

Schneider, Jennifer P. & Schneider, Burt. Sex, lies, and forgiveness: Couples speaking on healing from sex addiction. Tucson, AZ.: Recovery Resources Press, 1999.

Schneider, Jennifer & Weiss, Robert. Cybersex Exposed: Simple Fantasy or Obsession? Center City, Minn.: Hazelden. 2001.

Spring, Janis Abrahms & Spring, Michael. After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful. New York: HarperCollins, 1997.

Subotnik, Rona & Harris, Gloria. Surviving infidelity: Making decisions, recovering from the pain. Holbrook, MA: Bob Adams Press, 1999.

Vaughan, Peggy. The Monogamy Myth: A Personal Handbook for Recovering from Affairs. New York: Newmarket Press, 1998.

Marriage

Doherty, William. Take Back Your Marriage. New York: Guilford Press, 2001.

Gordon, Lori. Passage to Intimacy. New York: Fireside, 2000.

Gottman, John M. with Silver, Nan. Why Marriages Succeed or Fail… and How You Can Make Yours Last. New York: Simon & Schuster, 1994.

Gottman, John M. & Silver, Nan. The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. New York: Crown, 2000.

Markman, Howard J., Blumberg, Susan L., & Stanley, Scott M. Fighting For Your Marriage: Positive Steps for Preventing Divorce and Preserving a Lasting Love. New York: John Wiley, 2001.

Notarius, Clifford & Markman, Howard. We Can Work It Out: How to Solve Conflicts, Save Your Marriage, and Strengthen Your Love For Each Other. New York: Penguin/Putnam, 1994.

Weiner-Davis Michelle. The Divorce Remedy: The Proven 7-Step Program for Saving Your Marriage. New York: Simon & Schuster, 2001.

Love and Intimacy

Hendrix, Harville. Getting the Love You Want. New York: Harper & Row, 1990.

Levine, Janice & Markman, Howard, Eds. Why Do Fools Fall in Love? Experiencing the Magic, Mystery, and Meaning of Successful Relationships. New York: John Wiley & Sons, 2000.

Love, Pat. The Truth about Love: The Highs, the Lows, and How You Can Make It Last Forever. New York: Simon & Schuster, 2001.

Pines, Ayala Malach. Falling in Love: Why We Choose the Lovers We Choose. New York: Routledge, 1999.

Sex

Barbach, Lonnie. For Yourself: The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality. New York: NAL (Penguin/Putnam), 2000.

Gray, John. Mars and Venus in the Bedroom. New York: HarperCollins, 1995.

Love, Pat & Robinson, Jo. Hot Monogamy: Essential Steps to More Passionate, Intimate Lovemaking. New York: Plume/Penguin, 1995.

Zilbergeld, Bernie. The New Male Sexuality. New York: Random House, 1999.

Divorce

Ahrons, Constance R. The Good Divorce: Keeping Your Family Together When Your Marriage Comes Apart. New York: HarperTrade, 1995.

Hetherington, E. Mavis & Kelly, John. For Better or for Worse: Divorce Reconsidered. New York: W.W. Norton, 2002.

Mercer, Diana & Pruett, Marsha Kline. Your Divorce Advisor: A Lawyer and a Psychologist Guide You Through the Legal and Emotional Landscape of Divorce. New York: Fireside, 2001.

Neuman, M. Gary. Helping Your Kids Cope with Divorce the Sandcastles Way. New York: Random House, 1999.

Ricci, Isolina. Mom’s House, Dad’s House: A Complete Guide for Parents Who Are Separated, Divorced, or Remarried. New York: Simon & Schuster Trade Paperbacks, 1997.

Wallerstein, Judith S., Blakeslee, Sandra, & Lewis, Julia M. Unexpected Legacy of Divorce: The 25 Year Landmark Study. New York: Hyperion, 2001.

Understanding Yourself

Beattie, Melody. Codependent No More and Beyond Codependency. Fine Communications, 2001.

Carnes, Patrick. The Betrayal Bond: Breaking Free of Exploitive Relationships. Deerfield Beach, FL: Health Communications, 1997.

Hayes, Christopher L., Blau, Melinda, & Anderson, Deborah. Our Turn: Women Who Triumph in the Face of Divorce. New York: Pocket Books, 1994.

Lew, Mike. Abused Boys: The Neglected Victims of Sexual Abuse. Lexington, MA: Lexington, 1990.

Love, Pat with Robinson, Jo. Emotional Incest: What To Do When a Parent’s Love Rules Your Life. New York: Bantam, 1991.

Maltz, Wendy. The Sexual Healing Journey: A Guide for Survivors of Sexual Abuse. San Francisco: HarperCollins, 1991.

McGraw, Phillip C. Self Matters: Creating Your Life from the Inside Out. New York: Simon & Schuster, 2001.